Random questions to which you seek an answer
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@mikebarhoot pm'd
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^ It's pretty weird because I can lurk and view all of the sub-forums except for the Iron Heart board..Why would they restrict just one sub-forum? Curiouser and curiouser..
I adjusted this as this was set wrong also.
Once again nothing personal. Hard to get good help these days.
Thanks for being our quality control.Thanks for the info @winterland
Although I'm a lurker I've discovered loads of great information, and new brands, from your forum..great stuff!You're are very welcome. We are glad you found us. Feel free to join in and post.
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Has anyone ever actually listened 2 anyone & changed their thoughts on a subject, course of action, opinion, anything?
Folks just talk at each other & do whatever they was gonna do anyway.
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Seems pretty common these days. Conversation has become the exchange of (maybe) different subjective points of view, but you rarely see somebody change his mind after hearing the other person. Internet Forums are a good (or bad) example for this.
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On our journeys to become qualified counsellors, both myself and Black Orchid had to spend a good few years at college and university. One element of our training was developing the skill and art of listening which is fundamental to counselling and psychotherapy. I was surprised at how much "stuff" can get in the way of active listening.
I read something along my journey which I have remembered and use often; "Awareness, Process, Reflect, Transform".
Develop more Awareness of what people say to you and you say to them
Process what you hear in these exchanges
Reflect on what was said by all parties
Transform ineffective beliefs / attitudes / feelings / behaviours / actions for more effective ones.
It really helps and works for me. However, being human, this only works when I am "consciously aware" and not "asleep, dreaming that I am awake" -
Has anyone ever actually listened 2 anyone & changed their thoughts on a subject, course of action, opinion, anything?
My opinion is that 99% of humanity is selfish scum. Won't bother with 'm. The other 1% are either dead, in jail, or are mates.
"You know what would be great for me?.. To be in a fucking coma." - G. Carlin.
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always amazed at the questions/rants that garner a response
thanks for taking the time to entertain a loon
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Is there a thread for the 633N? My search skills are intermediate at best, but I can't find one.
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Is there a thread for the 633N? My search skills are intermediate at best, but I can't find one.
Ask and you shall receive.
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Thanks Chris!
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What shirt is this?
It's IH? Couldn't find reference to it anywhere but I'm sure I can see a blue tag on the left pocket….
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Re-run it with black snaps and black tags. Should be enough improvement.
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Thanks. I imagine it wouldn't be a slow seller if it was released now…anyway, it's very nice.
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The infamous IHSH-10, of which some shirts had upside down patterns IIRC.
