Some factors that I can add to the equation:
Washing - As a rule, jeans that have been washed regularly/semi-regularly in a machine with detergent, go longer than their unwashed, rarely washed, or cold-water soaked/hung dry counterparts. I find it a little bit silly that people are so bent about not "losing too much indigo" that they've got virtually unfaded jeans in need of massive crotch reconstruction.
Cut - Beyond jeans washed frequently the jeans that routinely achieve the most wear prior to needing their first repairs are more relaxed or at least have a top block with enough rise to facilitate a waist that tapers in from relatively roomy seat/thighs. The means that a good fit is possible without binding at the hips. The 634s is a good example of the trim side of this equation, whereas more traditional repro cuts are where we see this pattern time and time again. For example, we've seen lots of Sugar Cane 1947 and Mister Freedom Californians that have been very well worn prior to needing their first repairs (all the more impressive due to 100% cotton stitching…but if the stitching isn't being stressed at every movement....)
Fit - Sizing to hips and ass instead of the smallest waist size you can button up. Not only is the crotch a 3 dimensional stretch point that also has to contend with abrasion from legs rubbing together, it's the point that naturally takes the brunt of the ability for humans hips to expand when sitting/standing/squatting/running/walking/jumping. When jeans are sized very tightly across the hips/through the seat and thighs, instead of with room accommodating natural movement, the crotch will break down significantly more quickly than a "natural fit"
Starch/Stiffness/Rigidity - Correlates to the others in different ways, especially washing, but stiff, starchy fabric is more susceptible to abrasion, both external and self-inflicted. Creasing and pulling on rigid/brittle fabric also creates more extreme damage than a soft highly malleable fabric.
Slub/Weave Irregularity - I'm not going to pretend to be a textile art guru, BUT super slubby, slack woven, and otherwise highly irregular denims tend to break down quicker, and suffer from much more extreme/catastrophic blowouts that tighter, regular weaves. While this is highly anecdotal, in my experience, it seems that the levis and levis influenced denims from Cone and from japanese mills replicating cone are often very very durable relative to fabrics from brands like PBJ, Strike Gold, Oni Etc. Similarly, the 21oz sanforized denim from Iron Heart exhibits very strong behavior over the long term and is rarely in my experience the subject of catastrophic textile failure.